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So, as many of you probably remember, I was recently married. Dec. 20th to my wife who I shared an interest in riding (she's the one who has the GSX-R, we had the motorcycle cake toppers).
Anyway, she's been acting the fool lately. A couple weeks ago after we both got off work from Applebee's one night. She was supposedly on the way home to get our children from her parents house (right next door to our house) and go to bed. I was no more than 5 minutes behind her (putting on my gear as she was leaving the parking lot). Well, long story short, instead of making the three block trip home, she disappeared until 9 o'clock the next morning. Not answering phone calls or text messages. Needless to say I was worried shitless because she gave no indication that she was going anywhere but home. I went as far as calling all the hospitals and police to help find her.
Her story is that she went to a party with some of her old friends. Her old friends are the ones that she used to partake in her Meth addiction for 3 years of our relationship behind my back. Needless to say I was ******. We almost lost our children when we all found out about the Meth use when she was having our third child. You'll never know the feeling of being a villian as when I was sitting in the hospital after telling the nurses that we don't do drugs (as far as I knew up to that point, we didn't). Either way, by the grace of god, we were able to keep the kids based on her going through a rehabilitation program and counselling. Everything was going great until about two weeks ago.
She begged for a second chance to fix things after the incident two weeks ago. I accepted (stupid me), more for our children's sake (we have two little girls together 5 and 2, and she has a 10 year old son from a previous relationship who calls me dad. I'm the only father figure he's had in his life since he was 4 and who knows how long before that).
About the same time as the incident two weeks ago, I found out (by my own means) that she had come in contact with her previous boyfriend (and fellow Methhead) who resides in Kansas, and was talking with him behind my back. When confronted she said it was nothing. Well, the other night (Thursday) she gets this text message that I happen to read over her shoulder that says "I love you." I immediately confronted her about it and she says it was from some creep on "Facebox" or some other networking site. I was skeptical...
Which leads me to last night. I came home from work and decided to check her phone as she was asleep (she IS my wife afterall). I come across an IM from her to the same screen name that sent the previous amourous text the other night. It reads;
"Hey baby, I'm going to bed because I have to get up early. I love you. I will try and call you tomorrow sometime."
So I immediately rouse her from sleep and confront her about it. After some circle talk on her part, she tells me that it is her ex-boyfriend (mentioned previously). Needless to say, that's the end of my marriage only 9 weeks old. My first priority is finding a place for my daughters and I. Really just posted this up to vent and maybe get a bit of moral support (God knows I'm gonna need it.) Sorry it's so long.
Cliff's notes: Soon to be ex-wife is a lying *****.
Anyway, she's been acting the fool lately. A couple weeks ago after we both got off work from Applebee's one night. She was supposedly on the way home to get our children from her parents house (right next door to our house) and go to bed. I was no more than 5 minutes behind her (putting on my gear as she was leaving the parking lot). Well, long story short, instead of making the three block trip home, she disappeared until 9 o'clock the next morning. Not answering phone calls or text messages. Needless to say I was worried shitless because she gave no indication that she was going anywhere but home. I went as far as calling all the hospitals and police to help find her.
Her story is that she went to a party with some of her old friends. Her old friends are the ones that she used to partake in her Meth addiction for 3 years of our relationship behind my back. Needless to say I was ******. We almost lost our children when we all found out about the Meth use when she was having our third child. You'll never know the feeling of being a villian as when I was sitting in the hospital after telling the nurses that we don't do drugs (as far as I knew up to that point, we didn't). Either way, by the grace of god, we were able to keep the kids based on her going through a rehabilitation program and counselling. Everything was going great until about two weeks ago.
She begged for a second chance to fix things after the incident two weeks ago. I accepted (stupid me), more for our children's sake (we have two little girls together 5 and 2, and she has a 10 year old son from a previous relationship who calls me dad. I'm the only father figure he's had in his life since he was 4 and who knows how long before that).
About the same time as the incident two weeks ago, I found out (by my own means) that she had come in contact with her previous boyfriend (and fellow Methhead) who resides in Kansas, and was talking with him behind my back. When confronted she said it was nothing. Well, the other night (Thursday) she gets this text message that I happen to read over her shoulder that says "I love you." I immediately confronted her about it and she says it was from some creep on "Facebox" or some other networking site. I was skeptical...
Which leads me to last night. I came home from work and decided to check her phone as she was asleep (she IS my wife afterall). I come across an IM from her to the same screen name that sent the previous amourous text the other night. It reads;
"Hey baby, I'm going to bed because I have to get up early. I love you. I will try and call you tomorrow sometime."
So I immediately rouse her from sleep and confront her about it. After some circle talk on her part, she tells me that it is her ex-boyfriend (mentioned previously). Needless to say, that's the end of my marriage only 9 weeks old. My first priority is finding a place for my daughters and I. Really just posted this up to vent and maybe get a bit of moral support (God knows I'm gonna need it.) Sorry it's so long.
Cliff's notes: Soon to be ex-wife is a lying *****.
