Ok....I think I have a possibility worked out
Anybody think this will work? Or am I gonna blow up my SV?
Anybody think this will work? Or am I gonna blow up my SV?

you can buy a plug that plugs into the stock H4 plug.Yeah that seems to make sense to me as well...thanks for the tip.
Do you think the wire I had picked for my ground is actually, a ground? (the one my fancy black lines connect to...)
As for rewiring the plugs...I was essentially just going to do a delete of the stock plugs. I don't plan to cut them off, rather tape them all up and try to find a place to hide them in case I ever need/want to use them for anything. After that, I'll just run some wire to the 2pin connector that comes with the lights.